My Mum bless her was a lousy cook, in reality she was one of those folk who was simply not interested in food, it was an evil necessity to stay alive.
Dad was a good plain cook, a bit to heavy on the salt and the fried stuff, but he liked good wholesome food and cooked it well, he had the need to be able to, his mum died when he was a toddler so 3 brothers 2 sisters and his dad had to drag themselves through the war years, we never had food waste.
My love of food and cooking came from my friends mum, a cordon bleu cook in the 60s she fascinated me, they ran the local pub and everything was made from scratch, from the Minestrone soup to the Black Forrest gateaux, she had a lot of time for me because I was interested, but non for those who were not, her own daughter my best friend couldnt boil and egg.
I ran a factory canteen serving around 200 from the age of 17 after the lady who ran it went on long term sick, when she came back, the factory manager suggested I go to catering college, never thinking I would pass the entrance test, I gave it a go, it was a small college and they only had one class of 12 per year, I passed, and got in, did 2 years full time and passed my exams with distinction while working in the local Italian restaurant/hotel in the evenings, once I left college I went into the industry, and hated every single minute of it, I dreaded getting up in the mornings, so went back to the Italian full time for about 12 months, working with a brilliant Chef and second Chef, then I got the wander lust and buggered off to Greece for 6 months after hitching around the south coast for a while. Came back, worked in another local restaurant and again hated it.
Most of our meals are cooked from scratch, but imo there is nothing wrong with eating a bit of junk food now and then or letting the take away do it for you, restaurants are another matter you expect much better, and are often left disappointed.
Cant be mithered with food snobs or preachy folk on social media demanding what folk should eat, but making yourself ill with your diet! Even if you are one of those like mum was and just eat to live, surely to goodness you cant avoid all the diet tips there are at every turn.